The Body Positivity Project: Your body is your temple

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Today on the blog we have Viviane Hoeger, a qualified Pelvic Floor Recovery Specialist, Personal Trainer, and Nutrition Coach who brings to the forefront a very important question – “Can we please stop telling mothers they need to get their bodies back?”

Anyone who’s attended one of my immediate postnatal fitness classes knows that I despise the “working out to get your body back” attitude. There are many good reasons to exercise in the postnatal period: to release feel-good hormones, to improve sleep quality, to re-strengthen your
pelvic floor, to alleviate aches and pains, and many others, but to get your body back? You have a body – an amazing one that’s just given birth to new life!

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My Swiss Story: The Body Positivity Project: Your Body Is Your Temple

Ditch the unrealistic belief of “Bouncing Back”

I get it. Few things compare to the monumental changes your body goes through during pregnancy and childbirth. It can be difficult to embrace your new shape, and you’re definitely not alone. But while there’s nothing wrong with a longing to feel fit and strong again, holding on to be belief that your body needs to somehow “bounce back”, is not only unrealistic but downright dangerous.

Dealing with Physical and Emotional changes

Women will recover physically and emotionally at different rates. It is important to listen to your body carefully so that it has the opportunity to heal at its own pace. Some of the potential risks of doing too much too soon include fatigue and exhaustion; injury resulting from reduced joint stability or poor lumbopelvic stability; a wide separation of the abdominal muscles (rectus abdominis) that could be made worse by incorrect abdominal exercises; and the onset of stress incontinence or other pelvic floor weaknesses.

It’s not shallow or vain to worry about weight gain, your changing shape, or sexuality. It is in fact, a major factor in the process of becoming a new woman – the one who’s born when her baby is. But while it can be difficult to accept and embrace how your body looks now, shifting your perspective and learning to love your ‘new’ self, and giving it time to heal and get strong again, can be rewarding in many ways.

Here are my top tips for loving and caring for your postnatal body:

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My Swiss Story: The Body Positivity Project: Your Body Is Your Temple

#1 Focus on the wonderful things your body is capable of

Your body is amazing! Take a moment to look at the big picture and think about all the incredible things your body is capable of doing. It’s powerful enough to grow a tiny little human being. Your body means the world to your baby. It’s the reason for their being.  

#2 Resist the urge to compare yourself to others

Disappointingly, ridiculous standards for how a woman’s body should look after giving birth are all around us. We’re constantly bombarded with images of perfect postpartum bodies and articles about losing baby weight in the media.

It is important to remember that celebrities who “drop the baby weight” very quickly have access to an entirely different set of resources, including staff whose sole purpose is to make sure their bodies look perfect at all times.

It’s hard to escape society’s pressures, but beginning to recognize and resist the subtle and not-so-subtle ways in which women are made to feel inadequate about their bodies is the first step to breaking free of unrealistic and harmful body ideals.

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My Swiss Story: The Body Positivity Project: Your Body Is Your Temple

#3 Accept that your body has changed, and it will continue to change

Most women will gain weight and see their bodies transform during pregnancy. It’s okay to recognize that change for what it is. Try to keep in mind that your body has changed gradually over the course of the pregnancy. So, it is only natural that it will need time to recover.

Current scientific research suggests that body image dissatisfaction may play a significant role in postpartum depression. A study funded by the American National Institute of Mental Health found that mothers’ body satisfaction worsened from one to nine months postpartum, and that postpartum depression was exacerbated by eating/appetite abnormalities, greater weight, and a lack of close social relationships.

If you suspect your baby-blues are being caused by how you feel about your postnatal body – don’t be afraid to reach out for support. Your body is experiencing many physical and emotional changes that can be daunting but are absolutely normal. Sometimes all it takes is to share your feelings with others. Connect with local mothers’ groups – chances are there are a number of other mums going through the same issues as you are. Always seek professional help if you don’t feel an improvement.

#4 Not everything will look the same again, and that’s ok!

There are many ways in which a woman’s body will never be the same after pregnancy. But there’s no reason to believe your prenatal body should be your ‘best body’ either.

I may have new unsightly stretch marks and cellulite in areas where I didn’t before, but I feel more connected to my body having seen it go through change I couldn’t exactly control. I have a lot more respect for and appreciation for just how wonderful and strong my body is now.  

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My Swiss Story: The Body Positivity Project: Your Body Is Your Temple

#5 Focus on the things that you can change, and celebrate the beauty and strength of your postnatal body

In the early days, even though your main priority is getting to know your little one and fulfilling their every need, don’t forget you have needs too. Make time to do things that make you happy. After all, you cannot take care of someone else unless you’re taking care of yourself first.

Give your body the energy and fuel it needs by eating a well-balanced and healthy diet most of the time. Squeeze in a bit of exercise, even a short walk outside can help release endorphins and boost your mood. Practice deep breaths when everything gets too much. Connect with other mamas and leave the house. Talk about how you feel.

And most of all, respect your postnatal body. Always remember, not one person gets to define its value but you.  


Apart from being a Pelvic Floor Recovery Specialist, Personal Trainer, and Nutrition Coach based in Thalwil, ZH, Viviane Hoeger is also the founder of Well Mama, an initiative dedicated primarily to the wellbeing of mothers, soon-to-be mothers, but also welcomes women from all walks of life. The focus lies entirely on helping women feel strong and healthy by doing what makes them feel good, body and mind-wise.

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Are you enjoying our content? We would love to hear your opinions in the comments sections. Stay tuned for our April posts, cuz spring is finally here. We will continue to talk about body positivity, health, happiness, ex-pat, and travel tips.

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